Pavlov's dog salivated when a bell was rung. The dog had been conditioned to associate the bell with food. There are days I feel like that dog. Instant messaging notifications chime from my phone and instantly I feel the urge to respond. I equate phone notifications to a person standing behind me all day long tapping me on my shoulder at inopportune times and stealing attention from the flow of my work, my relationships, and my activities. It is insanity.
Unpopular Opinion: Just because you have a device in your pocket that makes you available to anyone in the free world at any moment of the day, does not mean you are required to be available to everyone in the free world at any moment of the day. These are expectations our culture has created and like other types of expectations, they have to be managed. What becomes part of our culture is what we collectively allow as individuals. If you hope to have time to rest and recharge, be fully present with others, or enter into deep workflow states, you have to be able to silence the noise of life and limit the interruptions. Untraining our current behaviors takes time. It may not happen overnight, but pushing back against the culture by establishing digital boundaries is one way to regain and retain margin in this 24/7 culture we live in.
Unpopular Opinion: Just because you have a device in your pocket that makes you available to anyone in the free world at any moment of the day, does not mean you are required to be available to everyone in the free world at any moment of the day.
Establish Digital Work Boundaries
Silence and limit notifications
Utilize Voicemail
Create Digital Breaks Outside of Work Hours
Be ok with being unavailable
Beyond work, my phone goes into silent mode at midnight and turns on again at 8am. I have family contacts and a few close friends that could reach me during those hours based on notification settings but I am unavailable during those hours to the rest of the world. If I am resting or napping, my phone goes into silent mode. When I am writing, practicing my spiritual disciplines (Bible study/prayer/solitude), or exercising, my notifications are silenced. This allows me time for thinking, deep work, and reflection.
Practice Digital Fasting
Somedays we just need to put the phone away. Let those closest to you know that you are going to be offline for a day or half a day. Go for a hike. Go fishing. Take a long walk. Read until your heart is content. Go have coffee with a friend. Let the sun shine on your face. Notice the little details of life. Be fully present with the people you love. Untether from the technology and be present in the moment. Take time for your mind and body to heal from living under the weight of being constantly available. Your physical, emotional, and mental health are extremely important. Cut the digital leash once in a while and enjoy the freedom!
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